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THINGS GIRLS MUST KNOW BEFORE HAVING SEX

Published October 17, 2012 by Tony

FIVE THINGS TEENS MUST KNOW BEFORE
THEIR FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

It is well-known that everywhere the first sexual intercourse occurs nowadays during adolescence, a time when many teenagers know little about sex and, apart from this, they have it because feel attracted by the partner or because they just want to try this experience.
Unfortunately, young people who have received a sex education at school or from their parents, before they first intercourse, are still a few. Today, the majority of young people gain knowledge of the basic sex concepts only through friends or internet, also if it often is uncomplete and unsatisfactory.
Young people do not like to read much, as they prefer a simple crosstalk while it is needless to dwell on scientific and moral speeches. In this context, for the young girls who are reading me now, I briefly will tell them that:

1 – Can I have sex with him?
If in doubt, ask yourself this question: is he the right guy with whom it is worth to take this step? Whatever happens in the future, will I remember him with affection and sympathy, glad to have given him my virginity?
2 – Must he use a condom?
Even if it is the first sexual intercourse for both of you, and thus it’s supposed that both have no sexually transmitted diseases, do not forget that it only needs one coitus to get pregnant.
3 – Ok but what if he ejaculates outside?
No, who does tell you that he will be able to pull out his penis before a drop of sperm has already come out? Besides, know that during intercourse a few drops of sperm (often called precum) can already be discharged. He can avoid condoms when you will use the pill, provided you have the certainty (which is impossible) that he is not having intercourse with other people, including occasional ones, and therefore might be a carrier of a disease. For these reasons, it is always opportune and wise to use condoms. If he carelessly has ejaculated inside you, there’s nothing to do, also if you can use the morning-after-pill and hope…..
4 – Is there a risk of getting pregnant through anal/oral intercourse or  if his sperm falls on my body?
No, from this point of view the sperm becomes dangerous if released into the vagina or even around the labia majora.
5 – Is the loss of virginity painful?
No, although depending on the consistency of your hymen, there may be more or less bleeding. If anything, pain or discomfort that you may experience  is due to the dryness of your vagina, also depending on the size of his penis. In any case, it is advisable to always use a lubricant (vaseline for example ). If the intercourse is too painful for you, tell him to stop, while if you feel no pleasure, have the courage to stop and excit yourself through the manipulation of the clitoris (fingering).

Sex is and should be a time of high pleasure and fulfillment, it must be so for everyone even if the first time. Therefore better to give up if this is not happening.

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SEX SURVEY

Published April 15, 2011 by Tony

SOUTHERLY & NORTHERLY SEXUALITY


In your opinion is there any difference between northerners and southerners sexuality?

The answer could sound easy if we assume that persons nowadays are equal also considering that people move continuously bringing mixture of race and progeny.

Undoubtedly, for this reason local customs and peculiarities change in the time but my thought was about  the “primeval” way of living of some local community.

Today, people still keep some way of behaving and mentality typical of that folks as the result of their own culture and mores. It is due to the heritage, that country own that to a certain extent still affects personality and mind-set. As it is told: “when in Rome do as the Romans do”.

I don’t know what the situation is in countries trans-Italy but as Italian can say something about our culture.

It was told that northerners were opener than southerners, in the sense that people were broadminded and youngsters in particular about their sexual mores.

It was well-known that most women and men had their first sexual intercourse during the youth and in the adolescence even. Young people had more freedom during the youth and this independence brought them to have more occasions and dates. Parents were more permissive without that sort of eternal bonds towards sons, with fewer cases of mummy’s boys or mummy’s girls too. Practically, as we say, “the sons cut their umbilical cord early” and it was not so unusual that young people left their family to take up residence in another place and live their own life alone.

In the south some prejudice limited such a behaviour while parents always have been attached to the sons excessively and till their advanced age.

Somebody will have noticed that I was talking in the past time (it was told….) and this because the situation nowadays is slightly changed in the south too. We all know that people continue to lose their virginity at an earlier age than previous generations. As told, “people are the same the whole world over” also if some rooted mindset endures and maybe forever as a genetic peculiarity.


Netsurfing around I read that in Europe the most precocious people about sex are the Icelandic, at the first place with the first intercourse at 15,7 years, while at the second place German with 16,2 years and third Austrian with 16,3.

I read about a survey of the Health department  of Milan and according to it in Milan 7% of girls would have their first intercourse at 13 years even. According to another Italian opinion poll about the age of the first intercourse:

 

Boys:
– 72 %  from 15 to 17 years
– 12%   from 13 to 14 years
– 15 %  from 18 to 20 years
–   1 %  from 21 up
Girls:
– 78 %  from 14 to 16 years
– 18 %  from 17 to 19 years
–   4 %  from 20 to 22 years

 

Then this extensive survey:

 

Sex frequency (%)

Nigeria 58, Mexico 56, India 53, Greece 47, Poland 46, Malaysia 46, Spain 44, South Africa 44, Austria 43, Switzerland 42, Russia 42, Brazil 42, France 41, Italy 41, Netherlands 41, Germany 40, Canada 40, Thailand 38, New Zealand 37, Singapore 37, USA 36, Hong Kong, 36, UK 33, Australia 31, China 30, Japan 14.

 

At least I couldn’t evade mentioning something about USA and here’s for you American an interesting survey about your sexual behavior:


Needless adding that I don’t feel confident about these surveys or polls because contributors stay anonymous hence the result could be altered or untrue.

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