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Omnisexuality

Published November 8, 2014 by Tony

 

_CUDDLE PUDDLE_
Sexual Freedom

 

Reading a few articles around, I noticed that some psychologist or educator is concerned about the “new” sexual orientation of some today’s youth.
Beyond the tendencies poles apart (heterosexuality and homosexuality,) in the middle there are others that are often defined by the term Pansexuality.
Omnisexuality or pansexuality is sexual attraction, sexual desire, romantic love, or emotional attraction toward people of any sex or gender identity. Young people who self-identify as pansexual assert that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others.
For many, this “post-gay” trend is related to the use-abuse of stimulants and antidepressants, a sexual utopia that would hide the discomfort of the “Cuddle Puddle’s proponents.” Insecure teens or heavily marked by the failure of other relationships…. maybe!

For some “pundits” of these days the search for identity begins  among school’s desks, where our teenagers, between a class and another, engage in sexual relations with peers – and this would seem fine to them – and according to their opinion, the trouble would start when teenagers do not make any difference in dealing with male or female.  What? Why?
Perhaps in some cases it is a challenge in themselves, but as always we cannot be so generalist.
Honestly, I cannot understand why, like many other things, sexuality has to be identified, labelled, categorized, and criticized unless it complies with what society presumes must be its “appropriate” course.
Who of us established or decides what is the correct sexuality for human beings?
Unluckily, whatever is human is uncertain and not absolute, including some rules. For certain complicated things, like sexuality, who are we to judge and criticize?
Like other mental affairs, sexuality is a very complicated issue that can’t be governed, beyond not being in some cases a choice.

Pansexuality rejects the gender binary, the “notion of two genders and indeed of specific sexual orientations”, as pansexual people are open to relationships with people who do not identify as strictly men or women. We can assume that it is an evolution of bisexuality prevalent among young people in the late 60’s and that until recently was considered cutting-edge and quite common among aristocrats.
Camille Paglia promoted bisexuality as an ideal. Harvard Shakespeare professor Marjorie Garber made an academic case for bisexuality with her 1995 book “Vice Versa: Bisexuality and the Eroticism of Everyday Life,” arguing that most people would be bisexual if not for repression and other factors such as lack of sexual opportunity. In “Scientific American Mind”, scientist Emily V. Driscoll stated that homosexual and bisexual behavior is quite common in several species and that it fosters bonding: “The more homosexuality, the more peaceful the species”. The article also stated: “Unlike most humans, however, individual animals generally cannot be classified as gay or straight: an animal that engages in a same-sex flirtation or partnership does not necessarily shun heterosexual encounters. Rather, many species seem to have ingrained homosexual tendencies that are a regular part of their society. That is, there are probably no strictly gay critters, just bisexual ones. Animals don’t do sexual identity. They just do sex:  a normal thing.
Well, apart from this scientific considerations or studies, shouldn’t  the equal rights and freedom involve our sexual tendencies too?!

YOUNGS IDOLS

Published April 6, 2013 by Tony

FANS MANIA

At the time of the Beatles, during their concerts, fans were crying and gave vent to their happiness at the sight of the musicians on stage, crowding and despairing even to have the chance to see them up close and touch them.
Scenes of the past?
No, this is still happening, even if today these scenes are not so striking and no longer big news as it once was. If you want to attend in person in such situations, go to a Justin Bieber or One Direction concert, for example. There, you will see hundreds of teenagers screaming and waving at the sight of young artist singing on stage.
But this is not all.
The love for their idol lead some fans to do Justin Bieber in Bologna with Giorgiaeverything, as it happened in Bologna in the only Italian stage of Bieber. Hundreds of girls aged 14 and up went to the concert even if living in other cities, and all hoped to be chosen from Justin to go on stage and seeing dedicate, face to face, a song, how usually the young singer is doing at his concerts.

Giorgia also was at that concert who, although not a Bieber fan, had accompanied her friend who likes Justin. Life sometimes does tricks, and Georgia could not foresee at all that among thousands of screaming fans, from the stage Justin would choose her to be the “less lonely girl” of the evening. Under her friend’s astonished eyes, she was made accommodate on the stage, where Justin took her by the hand and made sit down, then dedicating her a song. Justin was there a few inches from her, singing with affection a song and looking into her eyes.
I can not imagine how much envy all the girls, that were there, have felt at that time. Not everyone has such a luck, and chance would that, the one to be kissed by fortune was not even a follower, like the hundreds who were there dreaming of being close to Justin, to touch and kiss him…. willing to do anything for him.
Envy has no limits and in the following days Georgia was bombarded with insults on Facebook and Twitter, so as to force her to close the accounts. This probably would have happened the same, even if she had really been a big Bieber fan, because her luck had been so much, too much to the point of inciting envy and jealousy.

One Direction

In fact, a similar fate had already happened to a seventeen year old from Bologna, fuckingly lucky to have won a free ticket for the concert of One Direction in New York, and especially to have had the opportunity to meet Harry Styles, as well as see his image immortalized in wax at Madame Tussaud’s.
Being close to your idol, is priceless!
Is not this enough?
Sounds strange if not impossible that five Norwegian schools have brought forward the exams date because of the concert that Bieber should hold 16, 17 and 18 April in the Telenor Arena in Oslo.
Well, five schools in Aalesund have decided to change the dates of the exams, planned on 16 and 17, to prevent students, engaged in the test, from “playing hookie” because of this concert.
But fans mania is all this and more, and in Norway the decision to postpone the exams has even received the consent of the official Norwegian Minister of Education.

For pity’s sake, let me kiss Bieber or touch Harry Styles!
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ADOLESCENTIAL LOVE AFFAIRS ARE RISKY

Published March 29, 2013 by Tony

MIDDLE SCHOOL DATERS & ACADEMIC PERFORMACE

Sometimes there are studies that seem to discover the hot water!
I read about a new research from the University of Georgia (UGA) concerning a survey on some students (from sixth grade to twelfth grade in six different school districts) to check the difference in academic performance between those who were already dating.
In summary, the results of the research reveal that students who date during this study period, have worse overall academic performance.
Wow! Amazing!
Weird, I was just convinced of the contrary!
In fact, it is well-known that wonks have always been the students who date earlier and more.

Sarcasm aside, I think no need to set up such researches to become aware that a student who begins flirting during adolescence, then will have another thing to think beyond the study.
Basically, an adolescent who begins to date and carry on an affair, only leads us to know that he/she is probably more “mature” than others. Where for “mature” I mean an adolescent who already feels a physical attraction (and not only) to the opposite sex.
Such maturity (including mental one) is the result of various influences, genetic, temperamental, social and environmental, while physical aspect and stage of sexual development also have their own considerable weight. On the other hand, all this is what, from time immemorial, differentiate unattractive/wimp/introvert teenagers from cool/lively/smart peers.
The research also highlights how emotional difficulties, bullying, depression, and anxiety are linked to higher rates of smoking, drinking, and drug use. Also, another recent University of Toronto study showed that children of divorced parents are 13 times more likely to start smoking cigarettes.
It was to be expected! Or were you thinking differently?
As mentioned ahead, family and social environment affect a lot on children’s behavior. I do not believe we’ve to be psychologists to understand it.

All things hackneyed. Researches or studies that may be, they have their cost. So I say, why researchers do not engage in something more useful, like trying to find ways to decrease divorces, bullying, anxiety, and so on and so forth?!
But, it is evidently easier to conduct a research, like those, to have the confirmation of things we already knew.

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THINGS GIRLS MUST KNOW BEFORE HAVING SEX

Published October 17, 2012 by Tony

FIVE THINGS TEENS MUST KNOW BEFORE
THEIR FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

It is well-known that everywhere the first sexual intercourse occurs nowadays during adolescence, a time when many teenagers know little about sex and, apart from this, they have it because feel attracted by the partner or because they just want to try this experience.
Unfortunately, young people who have received a sex education at school or from their parents, before they first intercourse, are still a few. Today, the majority of young people gain knowledge of the basic sex concepts only through friends or internet, also if it often is uncomplete and unsatisfactory.
Young people do not like to read much, as they prefer a simple crosstalk while it is needless to dwell on scientific and moral speeches. In this context, for the young girls who are reading me now, I briefly will tell them that:

1 – Can I have sex with him?
If in doubt, ask yourself this question: is he the right guy with whom it is worth to take this step? Whatever happens in the future, will I remember him with affection and sympathy, glad to have given him my virginity?
2 – Must he use a condom?
Even if it is the first sexual intercourse for both of you, and thus it’s supposed that both have no sexually transmitted diseases, do not forget that it only needs one coitus to get pregnant.
3 – Ok but what if he ejaculates outside?
No, who does tell you that he will be able to pull out his penis before a drop of sperm has already come out? Besides, know that during intercourse a few drops of sperm (often called precum) can already be discharged. He can avoid condoms when you will use the pill, provided you have the certainty (which is impossible) that he is not having intercourse with other people, including occasional ones, and therefore might be a carrier of a disease. For these reasons, it is always opportune and wise to use condoms. If he carelessly has ejaculated inside you, there’s nothing to do, also if you can use the morning-after-pill and hope…..
4 – Is there a risk of getting pregnant through anal/oral intercourse or  if his sperm falls on my body?
No, from this point of view the sperm becomes dangerous if released into the vagina or even around the labia majora.
5 – Is the loss of virginity painful?
No, although depending on the consistency of your hymen, there may be more or less bleeding. If anything, pain or discomfort that you may experience  is due to the dryness of your vagina, also depending on the size of his penis. In any case, it is advisable to always use a lubricant (vaseline for example ). If the intercourse is too painful for you, tell him to stop, while if you feel no pleasure, have the courage to stop and excit yourself through the manipulation of the clitoris (fingering).

Sex is and should be a time of high pleasure and fulfillment, it must be so for everyone even if the first time. Therefore better to give up if this is not happening.

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SEX EDUCATION

Published January 7, 2012 by Tony

ATTENTION

EXPLICIT SEXUAL CONTENT AND DIALOGUE

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HERE FOR ITALIAN VERSION
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VISIT THIS NEW POST “Q & A” ABOUT SEX

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Answers, opinions and recommendations expressed on this page are personal, therefore, for any doubt or professional consultation you must contact a specialist.


If you don’t find your question or wish to know more, or for any question, write me please and if possible I’ll help you. For more privacy you may write me by email. My address is: antveral@hotmail.it
Have no shame or awe whatever your question is, there is no reason!
Anonymous you’re and anonymous will remain.

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Brainstorm came when some years ago I began to answer some question on “Yahoo!Answers” web-page and realized how many doubts about sex and sexuality boys (but men and women too) have, while some question was so repetitive to become intolerable. Though sex is a topic very diffused, illiteracy and fallacy aren’t unusual. It’s not my intent to rise on a chair as a professor, having – on the other side – neither qualifications nor titles for that, but I only want to put at other’s disposal my knowledge and experience, hoping it can be useful for someone then, giving the input to delve into. Anyway, whoever can e-mail me for more clarification or advices!

COMMON TEENS QUESTIONS ABOUT SEX

(First part)

At what age the male sexual development starts?
When does male puberty begin?

Same question and similar answer: from 12 to 14
At what age the sexual development ends?

Usually at 14 – 16
At what age the growth ends?

Till what age can I grow (height)?
Usually 18 – 20
What is Wet Dream?

Spontaneous and normal nocturnal erections
How avoid nocturnal erections?

By a costant sexual activity

Please consider these ages as indicative. Height and sexual development are connected because they have their spurt during a particular time in human life called PUBERTY. From the birth and till the start of the puberty the development is slow but continuous, becoming faster just during the puberty and lasting 2-4 years long. Then it decreases till to and stop definitively. During this time any child becomes a man physically. For male subjects puberty starts later compared to female and stats say that for male the average ranges among 12 – 14 years. But no worry if it may start a little sooner or later. Anyway, if at 15 years old you note no sign of sexual development yet, it’s the case to talk with a doctor. Most evident signs of puberty in progress are the increase of the tallness (in some case it’s so fast to be called “spurt of growth”), of the sexual organs, the growth of hair on the body (but on pubic area and on lip mainly), and the change of voice tone (by lowest pitch). Usually, not longer than 16-18 years the bones growth slows down, until to stop at 19-20 inexorably! There is no way to know in advance the definitive height. It’s a genetic issue and teenagers can do a rough expectation only looking at their progenitor height, considering that he can’t hope to be 6.23 ft. if his dad, grandfather and great grandparents were not more than 5.57 ft. While the growth is going on also the body shape changes, due to the increasing muscular mass, but the great number of hormones bring some psychological and mental changes too. This particular advanced time of puberty is called ADOLESCENCE when most boys can feel depressed irascible discouraged insecure listless or negligent. For someone it becomes time to evade, break with tradition, protest or becomes introvert. Both parental and social relationships become difficult and unstable. Nothing to worry however, it will subside! Adolescence is time when sexual development is thriving and so erection and sexual excitement increase. Very common are the “wet dreams” and nocturnal erections (or spontaneous erections) due to the high testosterone flowing in the blood during the night mainly. Whether they are a concern for someone, you could come out starting masturbation or having a more constant sexual life. For somebody is useful carrying out masturbation before going to bed. About masturbation, in general more mature and up-and-coming boy starts by himself this new experience while somebody else postpone it until the comparison with friends and further knowledge bringing him to try later.

Can I become taller?
How can I become taller?

Yes if the medical treatment begins during prepuberal age
What is the average (American) height?

Doctors can intervene for helping someone to increase the tallness only if his development isn’t in the end yet and better if during the infancy. Specific hormonal treatments together some sport (swimming, basketball, volleyball, etc.) can be useful for this purpose. Useless asking to get taller at 18 or 20 years old! It’s too late! Somebody – verging on the stupidity – even asks for getting longer arms only! Probably, in the future by genetic engineering & robotic this will be possible. Anyway, some American poll, comparing age and height, says:

10 years 55.67 in.
11 years 58.54 in.
12 years 60.94 in.
13 years 63.03 in.
14 years 66.34 in.
15 years 68.43 in.
16 years 69.02 in.
17 years 69.02 in.
18 years 69.37 in.
19 years 69.49 in.
20 years 62.99 – 70.87 in. (average)

§ Anatomy & Penis size

First, these are the principal external parts of the penis you must know:
Glanspractically is the head of the penis, often the biggest part where the urethra ends by the orifice where pee and sperm come out.

[ http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/cc/Foreskin2.jpg , A PIC ]

Frenulum –is the the strip of skin joining foreskin with the penis. It is alike the thread connecting tongue to the palate.

[ http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/54/Image_of_frenulum.jpg , http://www.miesklinikka.com/mp/db/discussion/x/IMG/31084/attachment/Penisfrenulum.jpg].

What is the average penis (cock) size?

How long a normal penis is or should be?

Nearly 5 – 7
Till what age penis grow?

15-17 more or less
How long my penis will grow?

How long my penis will be?

It’s a genetic issue, no one can know it in advance
What is depending penis size on?

Above I told that during puberty the sexual development starts and at 12-13 years, when most toddlers notice that penis is growing.

[here for penis in pre-pubescence time: http://img.medscape.com/fullsize/migrated/541/801/un541801.fig1.jpg , http://img.springerimages.com/Images/Springer/PUB=Springer-Verlag-Berlin-Heidelberg/JOU=00431/VOL=2007.166/ISU=1/ART=2006_202/MediaObjects/WATER_431_2006_202_Fig3_HTML.jpg , http://www.cirp.org/library/normal/702607.jpg ] [here for puberty start: http://www.biomedcentral.com/1471-2490/6/28/figure/F1 , http://www.mef.hr/Jurak/SliSem/2008/Case4sl01.jpg , http://www.ilcannocchiale.it/mediamanager/sys.user/55497/sexualorgangsBoy2.jpg]

Till sexual development isn’t ended you can’t be sure how long your penis will be. Wait and don’t be worried about size. As many other physic characteristics the penis shape and size are depending on genetic issues. As for the height, expecting to become well-hung whereas our progenitors aren’t, gets no sense. Unluckily, many men get the “locker-room syndromes”! A lot of guys fell ashamed to undress in front of other dudes afraid to have a little penis and to be judged for that. It’s ignorance and bad culture because penis size gets no meaning while most of us just have equal penis length when in flaccid state (flabby or slack).
[sexual development in progress: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/6f/Le_prepuce.jpg , http://www.nvsh.nl/facts/pictures/sexualorgangsBoy2.jpg , http://uncut.gay-porn-blogs.com/pic-really_long_foreskin.jpg , or in the end: http://www.hospitaladventure.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/young-boys-medical-exam-preview1-preview1-preview.jpg , http://www.boypreview.com/data/524/p35556_gay_photo.jpg , http://www.boypreview.com/data/1021/Candid-Twink-567801.jpg ]
About penis size, we can find around many polls carried out on different times and concerning age and race. The following table is a Canadian poll carried out online, so by internet whoever could take part everywhere. More than 3000 persons – affirming to be old from 18 to 55 – were engaged, but there was no way to verify the single entered information. However, the final data more or less is similar to the average coming out from the prior and well-known poll carried out from the Kinsey Institute. The single values put in the columns correspond to the most recurring datum entered by contributors, then giving back to the average.
[men erected penis in the mid-average: http://www.gaydemon.com/blogs/pictures/2006/08/chaosmen-ulrich.jpg , http://www.scallylad.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/gay_scally_lad.jpg , http://asian-dick.hornyfatties.com/average-penis-length.jpg , [above average: http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_3EAPTZv3OuM/Sdo9GxY2GGI/AAAAAAAAANY/Bc3Qd8ua4p0/s400/1.bmp , http://www.ilcannocchiale.it/mediamanager/sys.user/55497/big.jpg , http://www.imagespenis.com/enter/subaug2%20(45)_small.jpg]

Erected Penis MINIMUM — MEDIUM — MAXIMUM
Length……………….  5.57 in………….. 6.35 in……….. 7.13 in
Circumference…….  4.67 in………….  5.01 in……….. 5.43 in
Summarizing we can affirm that penis size in the population ranges within
5.57 – 7.13 in.(as average).
I realize if yours is below average you could feel uncomfortable but, know that operationally and physiologically also a penis long 4 in. will do the same things that a longer penis does. Whether it becomes an angst for you then, when possible talk with a surgeon.
[two guys in comparison: http://www.smartbest.eu/dimensione-del-pene-3.jpg , some below average: http://www.the-penis-website.com/banners/6uy3a03prpn6_small.jpg , http://fetishclips.com/showimage.php?cid=166603 , http://twinks.eu/image/ut8_you-want-suck-it-sweet.jpg ]
How long should penis be when flaccid?
What is the average size for flabby penis?
0.8 – 4 in. and 3 as average
Average size of not-erect penis is 3 in. while size can range from 0.8 to 4 in. These are variable values and not-indicative of the erect size, fixed for every body. It means, if the own erect penis size is 6 in. – this size will be kept during erection – independently from the size when penis is slack. Vice versa, erect size isn’t linked with flaccid one, at all! For example, the 6 in. penis could be 4 in. long in the flaccid state or somebody else could have it 2 in. long but – the same –if the fixed erect size is 6, then both the penises will become 6 in. long during the erection. Ok? The only advantage having a longer flaccid penis concerns the (external) appearance. Thanks to the illiteracy, many persons consider lucky the guy and he will feel at ease when naked. Besides, take in account that the flaccid size is continuously depending on some factors like temperature, stress, health, drugs, etc. Cold brings sexual organs (scrotum mainly) to huddle up while hot to sprawl.
[Here for boy penis in the flaccid state: http://www.blogdelpene.com/micropene.jpg , Here about a man: http://fotos.fotosprivadas.com/2007_chicas/MATR23077/imagenes/mipene4.jpg ]
Penis size by race?
What is the average penis size for other populations?
RACE LENGTH
African/black
6.74 in.
Native American 6.49 in.
Middle Eastern 6.28 in.
European/white 6.26 in.
Hispanic 6.03 in.
Asian/Pacific
5.50 in.
Can I have sex by a little (below average) penis?
Can I have children with a small (below average) penis?
What about too short or too long penis?
Is penis size important?
Medically and evolutionary there is no problem because until the penetration and internal ejaculation is possible (fecundation by sexual act) any penis is good and able! On the other hand, he who has short (out average) penis will feel discomfort and psychologically aggrieved, aware that bigger penis could give more satisfaction during the intercourse. It’s told that women have different kinds of stimulations, the clitoral and the vaginal one. A bigger penis gives both of them enough to fulfil widely the woman. I add that aside from the length the circumference should be more important considering vagina conformation, at last. Thus, better a penis thicker than longer! Though, longer & thicker should be the best, of course! Anyway, independent from your penis size you are or will become a man able to have sex and children, so don’t worry.
Manhood or being male isn’t estimate by penis size!

How long should penis be during the development?
How long penis is by age?

Values by age can’t be an actual average for teens because puberty has no exact or fixed time to start and its course isn’t constant or equal for any boy.
However, here’s the most common average penis size by age:

Age ….  range
12…. 3,3 – 4,1 in.
13…. 4,9 – 5,3 in.
14…. 5,4 – 5.7 in.
15…. 5,9 – 6,1 in.
16…. 6,0 – 6,3 in.
17…. 6,1 – 6,5 in.
18…. 6,2 – 6,4 in.
The only consideration I can do here concerns the expectation any boy could foresee considering these value. I mean, whereas sexual development already is in progress, a 14-years- old boy with a penis 5 in. long then shouldn’t expect to get a penis above the average in the end of the development.
[sexual development in progress: http://www.usc.edu/student-affairs/Health_Center/adolhealth/largeimages/template_clip_image008.jpg , fast or precocious one: http://www.boypreview.com/naked_boys_pics/showfull.php?photo=35556 , just in the end: http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_-7dqsX-Ijec/R_DI2avhUlI/AAAAAAAADU0/9ypc3qJfphg/s1600/VOL1308_03_27_08_128.jpg ]
How can I measure my penis?
How is penis measured, commonly?
Since flabby penis size is unimportant, it could be more interesting to measure it when hard. You need a measuring tape (better if with rigid blade) and putting its tip (the zero) on the pubis – where penis starts – then reel off the blade on the trunk until the glans (head). The orifice will show you the limit and the size indicated on the tape. Measuring it underneath is wrong and will give different values depending how much the tape will move the scrotum (balls) back.
[ http://www.penishints.com/assets/images/penis-length.gif , http://www.afraidtoask.com/images/measuretape.gif , http://www.thegrip.com/grip/measure.gif ]
Is the fertility depending on the penis size?
Can I have baby by a short penis?
Fertility has nothing to do with genital size but only with the semen discharged during the ejaculation. Usually, men get a simple “semen analysis” before marrying. Examples of parameters measured in a semen analysis are: sperm count, motility, morphology, volume, fructose level and pH. A low count or mobility can encumber the male fertility but there are some medical treatments for that! Vice versa, sometimes motility and vitality of sperms is so high that drops of sperm put near the vagina even can be risk for an unwanted pregnancy! For scientist, any penis ejaculating inside vagina is appropriate for fecundation!
What is the best penis size?
Do women like big penises?
Aside from the vaginal excitement coming from the penis rubbing inside the vagina duct, during sex the greatest pleasure comes from the clitoral excitement. Take in consideration that clitoris just is at the beginning of the vagina and so any short penises can rub it. “Pleasure” and “satisfaction” are very personal matters, so there is no fixed or exact penis size that can be considered as best. A penis 5.5 in. long can fulfil a woman while another could remain unsatisfied by a penis 7.8 in. long! As audience says, important is being able to “use” it better. I realize you are convinced that “longer” is better, but to certain extend only. Vagina isn’t a pothole endless! Very long penises (more than 8 in.) begin to be a problem and to hit against female cervix and uterus. Again, the average values look natural and more appropriate (from 5 to 7 in.) without leaving out the bigger “girth” that, as mentioned, is preferable. At last, apart any hypocrisy, one of the advantage of long penis is the possibility to carry out any Kama-Sutra positions and give self-determination/confidence to the subject.
Anyway, be yourself independently from your penis length!After this long talk, somebody even couldn’t be satisfied yet and still asking what the best size is! Whether I must specify a size at any cost, in my opinion the best could be – 7.5 x 5,4 in. –
Is there any medicine or device useful to lengthen penis?
Is possible enlarge penis?
As other formidable organs, penis is a very particular one. It is not a muscle and so no exercise can prolong it. If you look at its anatomy, note that inside there is a substance called “corpora cavernosa”, a pair of sponge-like regions of erectile tissue, which, when blood flows into, during excitement, bring penis to become hard. [Look here: http://www.penis–articles.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/increase-penis-size.gif , http://www.mhhe.com/socscience/sex/common/ibank/ibank/0045.jpg ]
In some cases, this structure even can be affected by injury. Anyway, there is no way to extend it. Only specific surgery can solve some grave case. Therefore, don’t waste money and time going after false promise as a lot of advertisements announce! They are anonymous sites where unknown people without scruple sell dreams and illusions only! I realize your trouble, but chill out and think….. if any drug or method really was effective, in your opinion, wouldn’t that ‘product’ be publicized widely and well-known in any scientific entourage and around?! Think to the blue pill for instance, in short time Viagra became a famous treatment for a common dysfunction, and well known everywhere! At least, two words about ‘Andropenis’ or similar devices and ‘Jelq’ manual exercise. Well, the first is a mechanical device that put penis in traction and step by step (should) enlarge the corpora cavernosa. Growth (should) occur due to the cellular multiplication of tissues subjected to the continuous force of traction. The same effect could be reached through some manual exercise called Jelq, which with patience and time (could) give some improvement. My opinion here is the same, though Jelq exercises are free while the device needs cash. Without any certain proof I get great doubts and you can’t rely on the attestations or hearsay found by internet! Whereas you think your penis is too small or you feel hung-up…. talk with your doctor (andrologist or urologist is better).

§ Some illness or penis dysfunction

Is my penis too curved?
Can penis bend upwards or downwards?
We aren’t all equal as well as our penises. Normally, penis should be straight and pointing (during erection) a little bit upwards.
[look here: http://www.ilcannocchiale.it/mediamanager/sys.user/55497/big-cock-close-up.jpg , http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/archive/9/95/20050214184923!Flaccid_and_erect_human_penis.jpg , http://en.wikivisual.com/images/2/2f/Penis_corrected.jpg ]
Anyway, some short bend (as banana or not more than 10-15 degrees) can be possible and independently from the direction (up, down, left or right), there is nothing to be worried.
[Acceptable bending: http://www.andrositalia.org/IMG/penecurvo3.jpg , http://www.penis-website.com/difference/bend1.jpg ]
Severe bend takes difficult masturbation or sexual intercourse and so should be treated. Sometimes a sudden curvature of the penis is a grave illness sign and the guy should get a visit ASAP.
[penises too curved: http://www.andrositalia.org/IMG/penecurvo4.jpg , http://www.andrositalia.org/IMG/pey2.jpg , http://www.peyronies-disease-help.com/peyronies-disease-treatment-pix15.jpg , http://www.peyronies-disease-help.com/picture-of-peyronies-disease26.jpg , http://www.peyronies-disease-help.com/picture-of-peyronies-disease19.jpg , http://www.penecurvo.net/images/p006_1_00.jpg , http://www.penis-website.com/difference/twist29_small.jpg ]
Why doesn’t foreskin uncover the glans completely?
Why can’t prepuce roll around penis?
Phimosis – this just is a very common dysfunction bringing a tight foreskin. Being too tight the prepuce can’t retract or move freely, covering the glans or rolling back as masturbation and sexual act imply. On others cases, foreskin can’t move further because is the Frenulum (the small fold of tissue securing the foreskin) to be too short. A short Frenulum may require a frenectomy or frenuloplasty to achieve normal mobility of the prepuce.Who gets short Frenulum has painful sexual intercourse and frenulum even can lacerate with bleeding (rarely it breaks completely). Phimosis can be slight or severe, but both need to be treated through surgery – either by a simple cut or a complete circumcision to eliminate the foreskin definitively. Such operation is necessary to avoid infection and give a complete functionality to the organ. Generally, these dysfunctions – as others concerning male external sexual organs – should be noticed by parents or doctor during childhood even! On the other hand, it’s opportune to intervene before or during the puberty to avoid bad penis shape and a troubled adolescence.

§ Scrotum & Testicles
What testicles are?
Testicles inside the scrotum produce the sperm, the male semen indispensable to fecundate female ovule – getting woman pregnant – and transfer our genetic code. Sperm (cum) comes out during the ejaculation, when man reach the orgasm, the most pleasant time in the end of the sexual act. Being so important any man has two testicles. [clip about ejaculation: Ejaculation Educational Demonstration.OGG , http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Ejaculation_Educational_Demonstration.OGG , ] [pictures: http://www.nightcharm.com/imagesblog/2007/10/big_gay_male_cum_shots.jpg , http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/fc/Ejaculation_scatter_pattern.ogv/mid-Ejaculation_scatter_pattern.ogv.jpg , http://nibblebit.com/wp-admin/user_content/7132358bd3c1f11f54591cd04ac1bdf5.jpg , http://www.ilcannocchiale.it/mediamanager/sys.user/55497/wank-01.jpg]
How big should testicles be?
Why one testis is bigger than the other?
Testicular size as a proportion of body weight varies widely. In normal adult human males, testicular size ranges from the lower end of around 14 cm³ to the upper end larger than 35 cm³ (1,18 in. x 0,79 in. nearly). Testicles size can change for some reasons as – short of direct injury or subjecting them to adverse conditions, e.g., – higher temperature than they are normally accustomed to – they can be shrunk by competing against their intrinsic hormonal function through the use of externally administered steroidal hormones. Testicles are contained within an extension of the abdomen called the scrotum (sack) and it is most common for one testis to be greater and hang lower than the other. The percentage of men with a lower hanging right testis or left testis is about equal. This is due to differences in the vascular anatomical structure on the right and left sides, overall but, in particular scientists think it’s a way to avoid “balls” (nuts) to hit each other during the movements.
[testicles during the development: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/4/40/Testicular_size.jpg , testicles fully developed: http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/a/a4/Hanging_testicles.JPG , http://www.mensfaq.com/en/blog/wp-content/uploads/2006/09/_d.jpg ]
Is normal for my testicles to come up in the groin?
Why do I get one testis only in the sack?
Why my testicles move?
Criptorchidism is a medical term referring to absence from the scrotum of one or both testes. This usually represents failure of the testis to move, or “descend,” during fetal development or after birth, through the inguinal canal, into the scrotum. Undescended testis is the most common birth defect of male genitalia. Undescended testes are associated with reduced fertility, increased risk of testicular germ cell tumors and psychological problems when the boy is grown. Undescended testes are also more susceptible to testicular torsion and infarction and inguinal hernias. To reduce these risks, undescended testes are usually brought into the scrotum in infancy by a surgical procedure called orchiopexy. Later in time the operation is carried out and lower will be the possibility to recover the testis functionality. Although Criptorchidism nearly always refers to congenital absence or maldescent, a testis observed in the scrotum in early infancy can occasionally “reascend” (move back up) into the inguinal canal. A testis that can readily move or be moved between the scrotum and canal is referred to as retractile and is caused by inguinal canal not-closed as it should. During the development it’s a risk if testis remain too long in the groin. It’s normal for testicles to move inside the sack arriving till the groin though they don’t have to go out through the inguinal canal and remain in the groin.
[one or both undescended testis: http://draijazsoomro.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/left-undescended-testis.jpg , http://faculty.mdc.edu/jmcnair/undescended%20testis.jpg , http://www.tefvater.org/renal/images/undctest2.jpg , http://www.tefvater.org/renal/images/undctest2.jpg , http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/06/Hidden_testicles.JPG , http://www.meddean.luc.edu/lumen/MedEd/urology/udtexam.jpg ]
Do I have water in the scrotum?
Another common genitalia defect is the Hydrocele testis, an accumulation of clear fluid in one of the most internal membranes containing a testicle. A hydrocele feels like a small fluid filled and transparent balloon inside the scrotum. It is smooth, and is mainly in front of one of the testes. Hydroceles vary greatly in size. Hydroceles are normally painless and harmless, and in children usually, it is present before or after birth and caused by liquid moving from the groin through the inguinal canal while testis descend. Others causes may be a physical trauma, infection or tumor. Sometime the liquid is absorbed slowly in the time but to avoid testes damage it’s opportune intervene before the puberty, at least. The accumulation should generally be removed surgically.
[ http://www.surgical-tutor.org.uk/pictures/images/hne&p/hydrocele.jpg , http://www.koori-childrens-clinic.com/hydro.jpg , http://www.cai.md.chula.ac.th/lesson/atlas/G/ImgBig/IMG0011.jpg , http://www.prohealthsys.com/physical/images/genital-hydrocele4.jpg , http://www.ilcannocchiale.it/mediamanager/sys.user/55497/scrotal_swelling_clip_image002.jpg ]
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SOME QUESTION ABOUT SEX COMMON AMONG TEENS (First part)

Brainstorm came when some years ago I began to answer some question on “Yahoo!Answers” web-page and realized how many doubts about sex and sexuality boys (but men and women too) have, while some question was so repetitive to become intolerable. Though sex is a topic very diffused, illiteracy and fallacy aren’t unusual. It’s not my intent to rise on a chair as a professor, having – on the other side – neither qualifications nor titles for that, but I only want to put at other’s disposal my knowledge and experience, hoping it can be useful for someone then, giving the input to delve into. Anyway, whoever can e-mail me for more clarification or advices!

Development & Height
At what age the sexual development starts?When does puberty begin?
At what age the sexual development ends?
At what age the growth ends?
Till what age can I grow (height)?
What is Wet Dream?
How avoid nocturnal erections?
Please consider those ages as indicative. Height and sexual development are connected because they have their spurt during a particular time in human life called PUBERTY. From the birth and till the start of the puberty the development is slow but continuous, becoming faster just during the puberty and lasting 2-4 years long. Then it decreases till to and stop definitively. During this time any child becomes a man physically.
For male subjects puberty starts later compared to female and polls say that for male the average ranges among 12 – 14 years. But no worry if it may start a little sooner or later. Anyway, if at 15 years old you note no sign of sexual development yet it’s the case to talk with a doctor. Most evident signs of puberty in progress are the increase of the tallness (in some case it’s so fast to be called “spurt of growth”), of the sexual organs, the growth of hair on the body (but on pubic area and on lip mainly), the change of voice tone (by lowest pitch). Usually, not longer than 16-18 years the bones growth slows down until to stop at 19-20 inexorably!
There is no way to know in advance the definitive height. It’s a genetic issue and teenagers can do a rough expectation only looking at their progenitor height considering that he can’t hope to be 6.23 ft. if his dad, grandfather and great grandparents were not more than 5.57 ft. tall!
While the growth goes on also the body shape changes, due to the increasing muscular mass but the great number of hormones bring some psychological and mental changes too. This particular advanced time of puberty is called ADOLESCENCE when most boys can feel depressed irascible discouraged insecure listless or negligent. For someone it becomes time to evade, break with tradition, protest or becomes introvert. Both parental and social relationships become difficult and unstable. Nothing to worry however it will subside!
Adolescence is time when sexual development is thriving and so erection and sexual excitement increase. Very common are the “wet dreams” and nocturnal erections (or spontaneous erections) due to the high testosterone flowing in the blood during the night mainly. Whether they are a concern for you you could come out starting masturbation or having a more constant sexual life. For somebody is useful carrying out masturbation before going to bed. About masturbation, in general more mature and up-and-coming boy starts by himself this new experience while somebody else postpone it until the comparison with friends and further knowledge bringing him to try later.
Is it possible growing more?
Can I become taller?
How can I become taller?
What is the average (American) height?
Doctors can intervene for helping someone to increase the tallness only if his development isn’t in the end yet and better if during the infancy. Specific hormonal treatments together some sport (swimming, basketball, volleyball, etc.) can be useful for this purpose. Useless asking to get taller at 18 or 20 years old! It’s too late!
Somebody – verging on the stupidity – even asked for getting longer arms only! Probably, in the future by genetic engineering & robotic this will be possible. Anyway, some American poll, comparing age and height says:
10 years . .. . . . . . . 55.67 in. 11 years. . . . . . . . . 58.54 in. 12 years . . . . . . . . 60.94 in. 13 years . . . . . . . . 63.03 in. 14 years . . . . . . . . 66.34 in. 15 years . . . . . . . . 68.43 in. 16 years . . . . . . . . 69.02 in. 17 years . . . . . . . . 69.02 in. 18 years.. . . . . . . . 69.37 in. 19 years . . . . . . . . 69.49 in. 20 years……… 62.99 – 70.87 in. (average)
Anatomy & Penis size
First, these are the principal external parts of the penis you must know:
Glans – practically is the head of the penis, often the biggest part where the urethra ends by the orifice where pee and sperm come out.
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